Reconnecting with a child's family of origin is one of the most common fears in foster care in Pennsylvania. A lot of foster parents see the involvement of the family of origin as scary, awkward, or perhaps a threat to the bond they are building with their foster child. This is a common fear, and it is understandable to feel that way. But one of the most important parts of being a foster parent is building an appropriate connection with the family of origin when applicable.

By keeping a connection with a child's family of origin, this can reduce trauma and help support the identity of a child in your care. It may also help ease a child's transition into the home of a foster parent, rather than complicating it further.

Connections with the family of origin differ on a case by case basis. In a lot of cases, this will involve caseworker involvement and supervised visits. As a foster parent, you are never navigating relationships with the family of origin on your own. You don't have to have everything figured out, your caseworker will be happy to help you with visits and with establishing proper relationships with the family of origin.

Not every situation will call for the reconnection of a child with their family of origin. The child's safety and wellbeing should always come first.

Even if building a connection with the family of origin feels intimidating, you should still consider foster parenting. Your caseworker will walk with you every step of the way, helping you maintain relationships with the family of origin and set proper boundaries for your foster children.

If you have ever considered becoming a foster parent, get in touch with LifeSpan Family Services today. No pressure. No commitment. Just honest conversation to see if foster parenting is the right path for you and your family.

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